我和Ivy聊上了最少三天，期間互相討論動漫、繪畫、打扮。483Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtRcqbngw0d
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我：做咩唔著JK出街呀？（😏X3483Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ951pNKYAYT
我：係咁叫人著你自己又唔著483Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡalJDgg0VTR
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Ivy：我肥嘛（哭泣X3483Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡaZZspnhsSH
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我：但睇你張相完全唔肥囉，扮曬嘢（😏X5483Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhLnOPPoZvT
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經過了解，她有163cm、55kg，憑我直覺，一般女生都是這樣。483Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvrXyuMtJvq
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第四天，我又嘗試聊下去。483Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡD7YKmxqY31
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我：今日補習社啲小屁孩有冇激你呀？（笑喊X3483Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLSe6EBlPJe
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可是不見得她的回覆，是對我冷淡了嗎？還是真的忙呢？483Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡayJgikNM6Y
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第五天，剛好2020東京奧運會閉幕，日本以鬼滅之刃主題曲作結，我正想跟Ivy分享。483Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyF3CF7IJer
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我：正呀，奧運會播鬼滅！！！483Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9XKPJpKPqE
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跟Ivy的聊天，起初大家看似志趣相投，聊個沒完沒了；現在，她完全對我失去了新鮮感，徹底的已讀不回；再過了一星期，她直接unmatch了我。483Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvZVBsc3H9D
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當時跟Susan的聊天也是這樣，明明聊得興起，我還有很多話題還未拋出來聊；結果不出一星期，她便對我失去新鮮感，冷淡下來。也許是因為她同時跟其他男生聊著，所以無法兼顧我吧？483Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5962kQVVC0
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交友app這種地方來得快也去得快，一個樣子表面上最少平均中上的女生，是隨時被過百個男生追求，即使match了，我的把妹說話不夠精彩，就很快被淘汰。483Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLmJ4ItX3rP
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原本我的想法是：在match之後首先聊天兩星期，用最少兩星期的時間去慢慢建立雙方的好感，才約會見面。太急的話很容易令對方覺得我另有企圖，未能放下戒心而不敢出來見面。483Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzeDDsbrsju
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但是現在，這個策略失敗了，看來我真的要另尋方法才行。483Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvwCDiKxf8U
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難怪別人說網上交友難，過急邀約，很容易被人當成另有目的，女生放不下戒心；過慢邀約，在這個男多女少的交友app裡，很快就被其他男生取替了你的機會。483Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWxndd7yU3Z
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到目前為止我唯一的小得著是，接觸過不少女生後（尤其是Susan同Ivy），至少我已經大概掌握到什麼類型的女生，與自己最合適。483Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPbwBpXCNpm
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