在我的理解裡,雙性戀和泛性戀是近乎同一個概念:我不會嚴謹地去區分他是什麼性別,總之我就是喜歡他的靈魂或肉身。566Please respect copyright.PENANAEMqyCsOMrJ
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可是有很多人都誤解他們,以為他們是男女通吃、花心的人渣,看來這個社會還有很大的進步空間。566Please respect copyright.PENANAcfmSlVqYZL
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在8月的炎夏夜裡,臨睡前我在床上滑著手機上的Tinder;遇上Margaret後,我又遇上另兩個女生,她們自稱是泛性戀者,其中之一是Peggy。566Please respect copyright.PENANAVekZB2xGHM
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我:你真係泛性戀?😂566Please respect copyright.PENANApbSdMxYBGz
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Peggy:係呀,你知係咩嚟?566Please respect copyright.PENANAB5hoYOX30n
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我:我知😂566Please respect copyright.PENANA4iDAqYUbO9
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由於Peggy的外貌實在低過平均值,況且我們之間沒有什麼話題,只說了「早晨」、「晚安」這類說話後,又像遇上Margaret那時不了了之。566Please respect copyright.PENANAAblMavs6aQ
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另一個女生是Chris,她則比較健談,大眾相,相片中的她是素顏,穿著運動衣和短褲,身子嬌小,正在類似舉辦馬拉松或遊行的道路上,看似是個運動型的女生。566Please respect copyright.PENANAUGiozTSs6d
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Chris:你個眼線畫得幾好啵~566Please respect copyright.PENANAkw0ONE6DKJ
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我:哈哈,我嘅化妝技術仲係有待改善。566Please respect copyright.PENANA7bFh1oZ773
我:我有個frd都係叫Chris,不過佢係男仔嚟566Please respect copyright.PENANAW8DIOoxLLQ
我:你係咪中意改啲咁中性,男女通用嘅名㗎?😂566Please respect copyright.PENANAgW8GbiK8og
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Chris沒有再回覆,就這樣今晚就睡了。566Please respect copyright.PENANA1IjOwyEAeE
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然後過了三天,她才回道:「係呀,我身邊都有唔少frd叫Chris。」566Please respect copyright.PENANAJBObRlhgde
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Chris:其實得我呀爸先叫我Chris566Please respect copyright.PENANATYZXrpFcjn
Chris:平時啲frd都係叫開我做「橙橙」😂566Please respect copyright.PENANAdNqF4YiqXO
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我:我呢就俾人叫開「神水」嘅566Please respect copyright.PENANAqQOGTiNMsf
我:咁所以我喺Tinder呢度咪改名做神水囉😂566Please respect copyright.PENANAMmYSdIRZRt
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在這些交友app上取這些特別的名字,有個額外優勢:相比一般人取名字,你會更容易得到別人的關注,從而提高match的機會。別人看見你的名字那麼特別,是很容易在好奇心的驅使下,swipe進來。566Please respect copyright.PENANAe4OgiKgm86
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Chris:其實我當初開account 時諗唔到叫咩名566Please respect copyright.PENANANfcYSWKTZm
Chris:最後唉,是但叫Chris就算566Please respect copyright.PENANAw30cdiD6c3
Chris:我就嚟想開返個group叫「Chris盟友會」喇566Please respect copyright.PENANA3OShMcatxg
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我:你開咗嘅話我叫我frd join埋你呀😏566Please respect copyright.PENANA5XUFdflMVa
我:係呢,你係咪學過廚煮西餐同四圍旅行過?566Please respect copyright.PENANAVv9MtzuZqc
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Chris的檔案裡,說她懂得煮西餐,尤其是意大利菜,而且還談到旅行;於是我借此切入,希望能帶動話題。566Please respect copyright.PENANA2aSIhWvW5O
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她的回覆速度極慢,她每隔幾天才覆一次,時間又過了三天。566Please respect copyright.PENANAoGYDQuMFPF
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Chris:係呀,我學過煮意大利菜,仲去過意大利玩。566Please respect copyright.PENANA4FMKVteiXf
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只談了一些與意大利菜的相關的話題後,我便決定詢問她的IG或TG。566Please respect copyright.PENANAU2HvGRoqgk
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「你有冇IG或者TG同我交換?」566Please respect copyright.PENANAbY99j4ABu9
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可是,從此她便不回覆我了,看來她只是單純地找人消磨時間,以滿足空虛的心靈。566Please respect copyright.PENANAOzWgLx9M1b