在我的理解裡,雙性戀和泛性戀是近乎同一個概念:我不會嚴謹地去區分他是什麼性別,總之我就是喜歡他的靈魂或肉身。517Please respect copyright.PENANAnwejJ7VOxl
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可是有很多人都誤解他們,以為他們是男女通吃、花心的人渣,看來這個社會還有很大的進步空間。517Please respect copyright.PENANAwtSTFHoxYi
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在8月的炎夏夜裡,臨睡前我在床上滑著手機上的Tinder;遇上Margaret後,我又遇上另兩個女生,她們自稱是泛性戀者,其中之一是Peggy。517Please respect copyright.PENANAJv812468Il
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我:你真係泛性戀?😂517Please respect copyright.PENANAY2YZpKsZi8
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Peggy:係呀,你知係咩嚟?517Please respect copyright.PENANATcl9P4E60m
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我:我知😂517Please respect copyright.PENANABm4CzYTTMP
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由於Peggy的外貌實在低過平均值,況且我們之間沒有什麼話題,只說了「早晨」、「晚安」這類說話後,又像遇上Margaret那時不了了之。517Please respect copyright.PENANA9wcXn0W9si
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另一個女生是Chris,她則比較健談,大眾相,相片中的她是素顏,穿著運動衣和短褲,身子嬌小,正在類似舉辦馬拉松或遊行的道路上,看似是個運動型的女生。517Please respect copyright.PENANAVHVFKnBFP1
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Chris:你個眼線畫得幾好啵~517Please respect copyright.PENANAunyFEKkehB
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我:哈哈,我嘅化妝技術仲係有待改善。517Please respect copyright.PENANAS6f4eUPNYa
我:我有個frd都係叫Chris,不過佢係男仔嚟517Please respect copyright.PENANAA8fPYoslmf
我:你係咪中意改啲咁中性,男女通用嘅名㗎?😂517Please respect copyright.PENANAF0Fw49tDxg
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Chris沒有再回覆,就這樣今晚就睡了。517Please respect copyright.PENANACsPx0cVQ6c
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然後過了三天,她才回道:「係呀,我身邊都有唔少frd叫Chris。」517Please respect copyright.PENANASlNOVofb0O
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Chris:其實得我呀爸先叫我Chris517Please respect copyright.PENANAH8p4Wvj3R7
Chris:平時啲frd都係叫開我做「橙橙」😂517Please respect copyright.PENANAZxwzwhoJzX
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我:我呢就俾人叫開「神水」嘅517Please respect copyright.PENANAotvaqiH78q
我:咁所以我喺Tinder呢度咪改名做神水囉😂517Please respect copyright.PENANAuW1PPCLwre
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在這些交友app上取這些特別的名字,有個額外優勢:相比一般人取名字,你會更容易得到別人的關注,從而提高match的機會。別人看見你的名字那麼特別,是很容易在好奇心的驅使下,swipe進來。517Please respect copyright.PENANAZ1BKkV5Odk
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Chris:其實我當初開account 時諗唔到叫咩名517Please respect copyright.PENANAmJyOXTsw8R
Chris:最後唉,是但叫Chris就算517Please respect copyright.PENANA0BvXV2NNx5
Chris:我就嚟想開返個group叫「Chris盟友會」喇517Please respect copyright.PENANALndNTLWqC2
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我:你開咗嘅話我叫我frd join埋你呀😏517Please respect copyright.PENANA89HR0TDVtr
我:係呢,你係咪學過廚煮西餐同四圍旅行過?517Please respect copyright.PENANAaKIF5y5F02
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Chris的檔案裡,說她懂得煮西餐,尤其是意大利菜,而且還談到旅行;於是我借此切入,希望能帶動話題。517Please respect copyright.PENANAFEOA5VaAci
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她的回覆速度極慢,她每隔幾天才覆一次,時間又過了三天。517Please respect copyright.PENANAPkRpXox5Fg
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Chris:係呀,我學過煮意大利菜,仲去過意大利玩。517Please respect copyright.PENANAKyLecoLvTX
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只談了一些與意大利菜的相關的話題後,我便決定詢問她的IG或TG。517Please respect copyright.PENANA86yFTbGROG
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「你有冇IG或者TG同我交換?」517Please respect copyright.PENANAzrerFXEWLX
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可是,從此她便不回覆我了,看來她只是單純地找人消磨時間,以滿足空虛的心靈。517Please respect copyright.PENANAlOkBHUYM4F