第二早，我們又繼續聊。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡgJP3GKVeDp
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Annie表示打算在30歲之前獲得碩士資歷。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBxGtWjuo2B
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Annie：我好似咁大個時已經畢咗業做嘢639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKnlDFJxwFo
Annie：我大過你，而家已經搵到俾拍拖更有意義嘅事。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJXf02U8FN6
Annie：最近我掌握咗AI639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡd5spmXfrtM
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzx9SvKAKUn
相處了超過一個月，Annie給我的印象是一個事業感重的女性，當她說出以上的話時，我漸漸地感受到我們之間有微微的年紀差距。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ635xZyxikF
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡI53ZJV19Sc
Annie：唔好做女人啦，嚟M辛苦。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2r2UjWHgF5
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡP5OQegpuQv
我：所以我咪中意做百變怪囉，自由自在。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ41mHWoiKLl
我：你係咪嚟M所以攪到你琴晚咁想傾性topic？（笑喊639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMRSKWg1Jbe
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡi8cTrwirUD
Annie：係，你咁清楚嘅？639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2YgqRAf23L
Annie：通常一嚟M啲男仔個個剩係叫人飲暖水639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4ZK77X4vnG
Annie：從來唔識關心女仔639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡnqF1cTNttF
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡS4OeZb2s2k
對於不是真正女人的我，雖然永不可能感受到什麼是真正的經痛，但是有個基本概念知道：女生經痛時，不是叫她多喝水就等於解決問題，如果當下沒法抽空陪伴她，至少也要嘗試跟她聊別的話題來分散對「痛」的注意力。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡou6menpJYD
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2kVowP5u0R
我在跟上一任女朋友交往時也是這樣做。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡt0eIua3efA
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡbVhKxjp9rf
我：雖然我係偽娘，但我仲保留好多男人嘅思考模式。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAzfY6GgHhK
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8gqiIr478C
Annie：偽娘好呀，識女人心639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOs9HhvzZuV
Annie：不過我不敢苟同639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTUyzHoGAW2
Annie：你都講過啲嘢㷫到我辣雞639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdVt5UWJbXM
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我：其實你係咪好小器㗎？😏639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡFpL7AQwosu
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Annie：係，公司啲人仲叫我開本簿記低咩事 😒639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYvVcTaPIOe
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUUwPLTnpxN
我的直覺告訴我，她已經在生氣我什麼，但是我又想不出那是什麼事。我只好嘗試聊不同的話題，例如工作、音樂、貓狗、旅行等等。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNvvfTkxXGg
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡo3KkWkRKMj
Annie傳送了一則政府公務員的連結給我。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYCcReSmGwF
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2kRkDoXHJn
Annie：去做啦，你嘅條件啱曬嘢。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXTo9TNvURG
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡEvSBA2h6eq
當說到工作和興趣，我開始感受到我們之間的共通性格愈來愈少。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ7InbW1yEvU
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5fZGqm6T8x
一說到公務員，我就開始把她和我的上一個match——Susan對比起來。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9kgu1qkKFf
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvjpMSyGXUd
在跟Susan聊天時，她會偏向聊旅行的話題，愛分享旅行時的所見所聞；而Annie則對出國旅行興趣不大，主要談自己怎樣渴望著工時穩定但是較為沉悶的公務員。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOzbvaMDG9b
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡgafJbMJHSB
對於我較愛自由奔放的人來說，可寧願別人能跟我多談一點世界各地的趣事。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4EovtSaZS4
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPLRFqT1dY2
本以為她生我的氣已經告一段落，於是晚飯後我們又繼續聊。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjYFK5RzLDN
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrRjr9WCknI
Annie：好想知你平時係咪都咁同人相處？639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQUEapYjEDS
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡMBeMvkyObF
我的直覺告訴我，她有什麼事情將要罵我，態度將180度轉變，而且還會對我連珠炮發地口誅筆伐，就像毫無先兆，突如其來的暴風雨，殺個措手不及。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡaYJoTgZfPS
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡF9CwTZXSS8
我：我平時同人相處好好嗰喎。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡApEA2vEBAp
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkg19l6WaOq
唉，我都知來不及了。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡv2XgWSd7x7
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Annie：下？639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTuYDZu2ByS
Annie：咁點解你會令我成日覺得嬲同無奈？639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3f6CdAEkKU
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyyYF2mbB6o
然後如我所料，她打了長篇大論罵我。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡuKVWrhE9vx
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡgy5HK6aWiW
「我當初專登有幾次唔提『豬扒』就係想test你識唔識做，原來你係咁唔識做人」639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWkcUYMVQ9E
「你上過討論區明知『豬扒』呢個字點解，但你三番四次係咁對我講，我覺得好冒犯」639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1vYXZP22jR
「你有冇諗過人哋聽到之後感受會點㗎？」639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡK3074mPl69
「你仲細，咁嘅做人態度將來出到嚟一定死梗」639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLEjTtYhCfZ
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwjkSWRd2HF
突然我的心情晴天霹靂，啊，原來聊了超過一個月換來的結果就是這樣被罵一頓。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLm7M57UEYY
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡbgmYhoDLBn
啊，原來她一直以來不願跟我外出是浪費我時間嗎？639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡupMJtbqD1f
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQuEIcoNdeU
啊，因為我年紀比你少1.5年，所以你就把我看得那麼低賤嗎？639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡFuW2T1xJ1V
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡnYkvc60zl3
啊，我做人不用你教！！！！639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ48ksPDkDvB
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡorVO31upgI
我無言，最後她傳了一句：你真係覺得自己冇問題？639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzhG8krgoPS
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡeUI3rOIbAI
既憤怒又失望的我馬上封鎖了她的TG，以及一切能聯絡她的方法。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwkTrUUcN8Q
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡoXErPLqkgW
封鎖她的原因並非憤怒蒙蔽自己的理智，而是：一來我神經很敏感，不想再讓她繼續罵我，我會受不住；二來我對這段關係已經絕望，我覺得連朋友都未開始便這樣吵架，開局都這樣，哪有好下場呢？我完全沒有修復的意欲。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡgxKYVR1ejo
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcdsOqsgROS
憤怒和失望的心情交織在一起，記得那一晚，我找好友Jason傾訴。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡG2wQUAeHAH
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Jason：有咩心事呀？慢慢講啦。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4FzIQPHhKA
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡFOXYNSCIZJ
我：我話佢「豬扒」，本身係冇惡意嘅，但⋯⋯唉！我真係唔識兜返轉頭，都唔知點算好。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtg4HCU3o77
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡi2BpsXQYEu
心情未平伏的我有點語無倫次地說著。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtLDhBslhn5
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡfxjs64XQyf
Jason：定定嚟，慢慢講啦。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡaZM75nRJuz
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcfkXqohUOF
我稍為平伏後，說著這過半個月來跟她相處的經歷。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOygq28s0bF
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3rNRozKe5o
我：佢根撚本就喺度玩嘢，咁樣test鳩我都有嘅！！！639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡT14tqJ5y5E
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYZfWzZ3Wqx
Jason：話說你有冇試過唔理咁多約佢出嚟見咗先？639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡoJ1qtVOglq
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlSktNSSB4o
我：試咗幾次喇，一約親佢佢就會嘗試轉移話題，好似想避咁。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡaoWE6gAdcS
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKapaRwfSEH
Jason：我當初都話㗎啦，嗰個肥妹仔，我之前一睇就覺得唔對路，邊可能同你啱傾呢？639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡP9xR2pZFh8
Jason：屌，呢啲嫁唔出嘅肥妹仔，擺明係bitch嚟㗎啦！639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLCONhkZ336
Jason：平時中意發夢搵一個高大靚仔嘅歐美男子，但現實就冇人吼佢，眼高手低。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0WFp2enuRb
Jason：我係咪又講中佢呢？639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQhLuek9h37
（陰陰嘴笑）639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3zz6OKo0oC
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡFacZFGeYdG
我：佢的確係講過想溝歐美男仔。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4DNwDLFhfR
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡfRMVc2krb6
又被Jason說中，事實上我認識了Jason多麼久，Jason本來就到過世界各地遊玩，諗過國際學校，做過花花公子交不同的女生，也見過大場面，什至跟人惹過是非，對人心的了解近乎街邊擺檔的風水師；Jason什至能「以貌取人」，單從一個人的面相大概猜度一個人的性格。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡY5lg7QUOSG
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjWx8QJqUvY
我：屌佢老味！639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqwvd093Ci9
我：佢而家咁即係點撚樣啫？係咪因我year 1 而佢U-grad所以我好串啲？係咪因為我年紀細所以好玩啲啫？佢仲要擺個家姐款出嚟教細路呀！！639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKedTZGWM8h
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8bJI4wVrDV
Jason：車！佢都大得係幾年啫？639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡnLv9iII0b8
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡV4lZcQgbh7
我：2年都冇啦，年半咋嘛。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvoPkIYrqye
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡynWduMgphK
Jason：咁咪係囉，都唔係好多啫，我三十幾歲人喇，我大佢幾年添啦！叫佢試吓係我面前扮姐姐呀？我教返佢做嘢就真嘢。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhyAAhdlhGm
（微笑地說）639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9N5Eft6FUY
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡbycLh4uT2Q
我：唉，估唔到佢今日露出真面目，原來佢係咁對我。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡpFfWydqfqD
我：我而家最嬲係佢嘥鳩時間，傾咗成過半月都唔肯出嚟見囉。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyzpp0Umokt
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzEOpklrH6C
Jason：一隻野豬仔咋嘛。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSlpkBMqNuz
Jason：佢擺到明就係平時冇人溝，嫁唔出嘅人，然後上交友app搵食啫。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡElAnvzRUZm
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyhVf2uyBP4
我：我估唔撚到隻野豬咁撚樣撞鳩我囉。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOiBKa8VLEl
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡaJwdHVByTg
Jason：咁叫佢試下撞我囉，哼！639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlw5aAbScEd
（暗笑一聲）639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkPwrGmDS80
Jason：所以我都唔知你嬲乜，講嚟講去，你都希望搵到個高汁又啱自己傾嘅女仔啫，係咪？639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ08tSLtBNV6
Jason：淡定啲啦，而家拖都未拍就收皮，又唔係拍拖俾人分手咁傷，我諗過多排，呢件事對你就變成過眼煙雲㗎喇。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡpiGlLknrdm
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkf9ocoGGYp
經過Jason在電話上的安慰，我徹底冷靜下來。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLlmL3VvwTZ
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOSXRISDgum
事隔幾日，如Jason所言我已經能繼續往前走，過回正常的日子。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡN3OoP9BrY4
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRTRUiuj45N
事後我又反思Jason那晚講過的話，還真的有道理。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1uhaXC5fMc
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5t0l48FkMw
先檢討這次的經歷，我仍然需要提升自己的女人心的觀察力，避免再次出現像這次惹怒Annie的情況。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ45ExKRYlEM
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVfH63t5u3o
其次，又是在跟Susan聊天時遇上的同類問題：聊兩星期才約會是否太慢了？我真的要調整節奏才行；還有的是，如果她在app上跟人聊很久，但是屢次不肯出來與人見面的話，那麼能發展的機會基本上已經渺茫。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡFh7wDtjmSE
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhYoHl00V8h
現在又想想Jason那晚的說話，還真的有不少道理。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvLOYTXRkiX
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXelR6ZiY0f
Annie是大學畢業生，而且還進昇讀碩士，很重視事業。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkFWRVM7YeC
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡP6No02p5YK
人際關係方面，她說過她的公司全都是女生，基本上除了幾個中學同學外，平日都沒有接觸男生的機會；而她平日都愛跟公司的女同事談閑事，什至放假時都會聯絡一群同事到像Starbuck、Crosstini這些地方消遣。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUFlG0t7NjD
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡfLAL9p112I
我已經大概掌握到她是個怎樣的人。我不像Jason，我不在此評論她的好與壞，經過過過半月，Annie這類女生適不適合我，已經心裡有數。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZRPKXH531U
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡii6eXkq5ka
再想想當初match她時，本來我只想借此機會來練習跟女生溝通，而非真的為真愛而match；但是沒想到，我最後竟然認真起來，真諷刺。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡpvUQYk7VJl
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡoIIhDAlbnt
在Tinder上，有很多大陸和外國人，Annie是我在這個app上繼Susan之後，遇上的第二個香港女生，但我這次竟然被「港女」反弄一道，不禁苦笑。639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvsEArwgExp
639Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWsSAHBlk8D
好了，繼續找下個吧。
Penana
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