第二早，我們又繼續聊。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjvv4U1y1zr
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Annie表示打算在30歲之前獲得碩士資歷。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡIKsFNidpVq
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Annie：我好似咁大個時已經畢咗業做嘢595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyIV7TJ3X0m
Annie：我大過你，而家已經搵到俾拍拖更有意義嘅事。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9mxpUUI0FL
Annie：最近我掌握咗AI595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHoX3VrCiHI
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相處了超過一個月，Annie給我的印象是一個事業感重的女性，當她說出以上的話時，我漸漸地感受到我們之間有微微的年紀差距。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡm4bWy9yA3p
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9sHVBDXhx3
Annie：唔好做女人啦，嚟M辛苦。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdaxEfgzUX6
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTqcH3Is0Bm
我：所以我咪中意做百變怪囉，自由自在。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZ2R29LNhYf
我：你係咪嚟M所以攪到你琴晚咁想傾性topic？（笑喊595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWStcfv4y0l
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Annie：係，你咁清楚嘅？595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡI7ceXiq2BC
Annie：通常一嚟M啲男仔個個剩係叫人飲暖水595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡuxcp6mkhe6
Annie：從來唔識關心女仔595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡymvsTVYylb
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對於不是真正女人的我，雖然永不可能感受到什麼是真正的經痛，但是有個基本概念知道：女生經痛時，不是叫她多喝水就等於解決問題，如果當下沒法抽空陪伴她，至少也要嘗試跟她聊別的話題來分散對「痛」的注意力。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAmTecUhqk4
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQWhMN9pDCv
我在跟上一任女朋友交往時也是這樣做。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ46nznd3pkp
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我：雖然我係偽娘，但我仲保留好多男人嘅思考模式。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXQeebMPaZS
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBXcWpQt9Tg
Annie：偽娘好呀，識女人心595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡrawj77DSU2
Annie：不過我不敢苟同595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0CjcGWlEoS
Annie：你都講過啲嘢㷫到我辣雞595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5c1hg5A5wo
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我：其實你係咪好小器㗎？😏595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡL5h3qWdJyf
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Annie：係，公司啲人仲叫我開本簿記低咩事 😒595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡX61TvZe76k
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5EiVdakCGN
我的直覺告訴我，她已經在生氣我什麼，但是我又想不出那是什麼事。我只好嘗試聊不同的話題，例如工作、音樂、貓狗、旅行等等。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSxON3L6KNv
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHt1JlKwGbe
Annie傳送了一則政府公務員的連結給我。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtuToF7EFNL
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Annie：去做啦，你嘅條件啱曬嘢。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkABdMrPSDT
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQtNdUneOUv
當說到工作和興趣，我開始感受到我們之間的共通性格愈來愈少。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNtnMHjTxNm
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOiRwa3yT5K
一說到公務員，我就開始把她和我的上一個match——Susan對比起來。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdL9giF4cHT
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡiorWjJujUo
在跟Susan聊天時，她會偏向聊旅行的話題，愛分享旅行時的所見所聞；而Annie則對出國旅行興趣不大，主要談自己怎樣渴望著工時穩定但是較為沉悶的公務員。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2Z5Ifg1HSn
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡuRj9q3chMT
對於我較愛自由奔放的人來說，可寧願別人能跟我多談一點世界各地的趣事。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTKWUhyoUpL
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjj5srjRMbp
本以為她生我的氣已經告一段落，於是晚飯後我們又繼續聊。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJqeWnSfFjp
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Annie：好想知你平時係咪都咁同人相處？595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNwifnatBm9
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我的直覺告訴我，她有什麼事情將要罵我，態度將180度轉變，而且還會對我連珠炮發地口誅筆伐，就像毫無先兆，突如其來的暴風雨，殺個措手不及。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6iDV7HZsPW
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWYCL60wmZD
我：我平時同人相處好好嗰喎。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlxId3vdiTu
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唉，我都知來不及了。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3xzyuabm5t
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Annie：下？595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ85sTdYsIKh
Annie：咁點解你會令我成日覺得嬲同無奈？595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9i0iewyrPt
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然後如我所料，她打了長篇大論罵我。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHbAXUIhvUY
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8ZFhC646XF
「我當初專登有幾次唔提『豬扒』就係想test你識唔識做，原來你係咁唔識做人」595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVdbdCleB9V
「你上過討論區明知『豬扒』呢個字點解，但你三番四次係咁對我講，我覺得好冒犯」595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmqJ9WjgxmK
「你有冇諗過人哋聽到之後感受會點㗎？」595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡK4aqgBZNuE
「你仲細，咁嘅做人態度將來出到嚟一定死梗」595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ62YgsYOmK1
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡx6BqaUIOqF
突然我的心情晴天霹靂，啊，原來聊了超過一個月換來的結果就是這樣被罵一頓。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSMb3s0JNWE
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1ViEOa5MbW
啊，原來她一直以來不願跟我外出是浪費我時間嗎？595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡxISNTArzqC
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGV7NGR5zmH
啊，因為我年紀比你少1.5年，所以你就把我看得那麼低賤嗎？595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡR1YboMcQPN
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡu9fXbdvHxt
啊，我做人不用你教！！！！595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ165uDwVlYB
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我無言，最後她傳了一句：你真係覺得自己冇問題？595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡV8Omope4ns
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4xBECjzIJo
既憤怒又失望的我馬上封鎖了她的TG，以及一切能聯絡她的方法。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyr2qURBcMv
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1yVhd0Yjo2
封鎖她的原因並非憤怒蒙蔽自己的理智，而是：一來我神經很敏感，不想再讓她繼續罵我，我會受不住；二來我對這段關係已經絕望，我覺得連朋友都未開始便這樣吵架，開局都這樣，哪有好下場呢？我完全沒有修復的意欲。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ19YsFHzLP5
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡoZnyE454vk
憤怒和失望的心情交織在一起，記得那一晚，我找好友Jason傾訴。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡSSyHU4FbAL
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Jason：有咩心事呀？慢慢講啦。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3iAzMcSyeU
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmOEBtxMxoS
我：我話佢「豬扒」，本身係冇惡意嘅，但⋯⋯唉！我真係唔識兜返轉頭，都唔知點算好。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRDMNSutWdP
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmLBHpOtYql
心情未平伏的我有點語無倫次地說著。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWOlXBT6K1i
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡemWYVZx7H2
Jason：定定嚟，慢慢講啦。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡB1bsuid5Hb
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQD02QDG5pn
我稍為平伏後，說著這過半個月來跟她相處的經歷。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0D1nN7SEQR
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡG8nF7U2syQ
我：佢根撚本就喺度玩嘢，咁樣test鳩我都有嘅！！！595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUhrjBgaPua
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0pmPOdv7jD
Jason：話說你有冇試過唔理咁多約佢出嚟見咗先？595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4jLhyBx3Zw
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKz1OUISRwy
我：試咗幾次喇，一約親佢佢就會嘗試轉移話題，好似想避咁。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtbzSzUuSXi
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6LotAUYxEz
Jason：我當初都話㗎啦，嗰個肥妹仔，我之前一睇就覺得唔對路，邊可能同你啱傾呢？595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡt4QxNqKqtK
Jason：屌，呢啲嫁唔出嘅肥妹仔，擺明係bitch嚟㗎啦！595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡw5hReRQaVU
Jason：平時中意發夢搵一個高大靚仔嘅歐美男子，但現實就冇人吼佢，眼高手低。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6djCAMUoUA
Jason：我係咪又講中佢呢？595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3siwYJnjyY
（陰陰嘴笑）595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUErfLEwvPh
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我：佢的確係講過想溝歐美男仔。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡesy2wBNorQ
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3MTo8COKav
又被Jason說中，事實上我認識了Jason多麼久，Jason本來就到過世界各地遊玩，諗過國際學校，做過花花公子交不同的女生，也見過大場面，什至跟人惹過是非，對人心的了解近乎街邊擺檔的風水師；Jason什至能「以貌取人」，單從一個人的面相大概猜度一個人的性格。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡz2oHGW9twu
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我：屌佢老味！595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZSAiwOpZ45
我：佢而家咁即係點撚樣啫？係咪因我year 1 而佢U-grad所以我好串啲？係咪因為我年紀細所以好玩啲啫？佢仲要擺個家姐款出嚟教細路呀！！595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ7Y2uf6kASE
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Jason：車！佢都大得係幾年啫？595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡE7VjRRRWG6
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我：2年都冇啦，年半咋嘛。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9Un9g7gcDX
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Jason：咁咪係囉，都唔係好多啫，我三十幾歲人喇，我大佢幾年添啦！叫佢試吓係我面前扮姐姐呀？我教返佢做嘢就真嘢。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡkEVdHUAJmF
（微笑地說）595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡEiusl1w38P
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我：唉，估唔到佢今日露出真面目，原來佢係咁對我。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ78FMiYsmxJ
我：我而家最嬲係佢嘥鳩時間，傾咗成過半月都唔肯出嚟見囉。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡINm5snQ7Yc
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNKNWPt5aA6
Jason：一隻野豬仔咋嘛。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHQT2qQgtez
Jason：佢擺到明就係平時冇人溝，嫁唔出嘅人，然後上交友app搵食啫。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡebgwZ96Yv9
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2orLwlVCMl
我：我估唔撚到隻野豬咁撚樣撞鳩我囉。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡCaTWCpOTTK
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Jason：咁叫佢試下撞我囉，哼！595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJ5mlesL1ph
（暗笑一聲）595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyloJsv9hvx
Jason：所以我都唔知你嬲乜，講嚟講去，你都希望搵到個高汁又啱自己傾嘅女仔啫，係咪？595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlWxfUGQzmQ
Jason：淡定啲啦，而家拖都未拍就收皮，又唔係拍拖俾人分手咁傷，我諗過多排，呢件事對你就變成過眼煙雲㗎喇。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡbjWPNAxNHX
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡRC8qjpF5ld
經過Jason在電話上的安慰，我徹底冷靜下來。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlC8S5fcClm
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqomqnVyDZl
事隔幾日，如Jason所言我已經能繼續往前走，過回正常的日子。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ7vBQNygt4W
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZsr4aaxZRK
事後我又反思Jason那晚講過的話，還真的有道理。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtBVFQKTQX7
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先檢討這次的經歷，我仍然需要提升自己的女人心的觀察力，避免再次出現像這次惹怒Annie的情況。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡp8AMqu3nL3
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKfmJiiAbhJ
其次，又是在跟Susan聊天時遇上的同類問題：聊兩星期才約會是否太慢了？我真的要調整節奏才行；還有的是，如果她在app上跟人聊很久，但是屢次不肯出來與人見面的話，那麼能發展的機會基本上已經渺茫。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvDLFksmkvj
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXCzSRKNBIh
現在又想想Jason那晚的說話，還真的有不少道理。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmds5kQKqA6
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Annie是大學畢業生，而且還進昇讀碩士，很重視事業。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡruU6qu8lZt
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ553C9je3wo
人際關係方面，她說過她的公司全都是女生，基本上除了幾個中學同學外，平日都沒有接觸男生的機會；而她平日都愛跟公司的女同事談閑事，什至放假時都會聯絡一群同事到像Starbuck、Crosstini這些地方消遣。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9oHfQ9Vyn2
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我已經大概掌握到她是個怎樣的人。我不像Jason，我不在此評論她的好與壞，經過過過半月，Annie這類女生適不適合我，已經心裡有數。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKTcDIjHxQZ
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡC0yYCfeX1G
再想想當初match她時，本來我只想借此機會來練習跟女生溝通，而非真的為真愛而match；但是沒想到，我最後竟然認真起來，真諷刺。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXkswt7GsTI
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdO050UlHPO
在Tinder上，有很多大陸和外國人，Annie是我在這個app上繼Susan之後，遇上的第二個香港女生，但我這次竟然被「港女」反弄一道，不禁苦笑。595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡaTdT5D1P3z
595Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0A3OO41qgs
好了，繼續找下個吧。
Penana
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