第二早，我們又繼續聊。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡk0RD03TE9P
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Annie表示打算在30歲之前獲得碩士資歷。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzEJWnP0awh
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Annie：我好似咁大個時已經畢咗業做嘢588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡK4frPBrfxB
Annie：我大過你，而家已經搵到俾拍拖更有意義嘅事。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡq8vtcdWF3a
Annie：最近我掌握咗AI588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwktlqo49CJ
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡaZyruUDTBs
相處了超過一個月，Annie給我的印象是一個事業感重的女性，當她說出以上的話時，我漸漸地感受到我們之間有微微的年紀差距。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡge2fY3iAbW
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Annie：唔好做女人啦，嚟M辛苦。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1VOVt6yIeO
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9zGVuWIHoK
我：所以我咪中意做百變怪囉，自由自在。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwxqZdTQUI5
我：你係咪嚟M所以攪到你琴晚咁想傾性topic？（笑喊588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡf5NCV3u9gO
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Annie：係，你咁清楚嘅？588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvi7ZiAkcrp
Annie：通常一嚟M啲男仔個個剩係叫人飲暖水588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡeANwKuPPYK
Annie：從來唔識關心女仔588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡNO1SnDEsJl
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡARNbbxE13z
對於不是真正女人的我，雖然永不可能感受到什麼是真正的經痛，但是有個基本概念知道：女生經痛時，不是叫她多喝水就等於解決問題，如果當下沒法抽空陪伴她，至少也要嘗試跟她聊別的話題來分散對「痛」的注意力。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡub8qw2zpko
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPlZns1016U
我在跟上一任女朋友交往時也是這樣做。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3q68DSGTnF
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVOmZ8ZeiJB
我：雖然我係偽娘，但我仲保留好多男人嘅思考模式。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡenloBrkBTy
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡu6jcGSH0uw
Annie：偽娘好呀，識女人心588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9h7J7ma7yN
Annie：不過我不敢苟同588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡbbqCnS3ZvF
Annie：你都講過啲嘢㷫到我辣雞588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJoBmtx8drX
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡpPO0ERUgGh
我：其實你係咪好小器㗎？😏588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYwjz7Xg2PD
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Annie：係，公司啲人仲叫我開本簿記低咩事 😒588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9k73xAdqKU
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmaO1EUIKvg
我的直覺告訴我，她已經在生氣我什麼，但是我又想不出那是什麼事。我只好嘗試聊不同的話題，例如工作、音樂、貓狗、旅行等等。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0chU8BLtMP
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYsg7VLMmXa
Annie傳送了一則政府公務員的連結給我。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡl3SA3i8gYZ
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAsOtthWhPX
Annie：去做啦，你嘅條件啱曬嘢。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡf4IP0yynlZ
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡu2xuvTXqHl
當說到工作和興趣，我開始感受到我們之間的共通性格愈來愈少。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡccXW7MKhL2
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡts1lgmlbca
一說到公務員，我就開始把她和我的上一個match——Susan對比起來。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡImH4cCFmD0
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡX0MxUDUu4M
在跟Susan聊天時，她會偏向聊旅行的話題，愛分享旅行時的所見所聞；而Annie則對出國旅行興趣不大，主要談自己怎樣渴望著工時穩定但是較為沉悶的公務員。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTyWSqTAlsk
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對於我較愛自由奔放的人來說，可寧願別人能跟我多談一點世界各地的趣事。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡuYsT2mMX7u
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzXx43kviub
本以為她生我的氣已經告一段落，於是晚飯後我們又繼續聊。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcUx6C2MWfg
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwBljBkeuVk
Annie：好想知你平時係咪都咁同人相處？588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdAe5JzOex0
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmjoEScM6g6
我的直覺告訴我，她有什麼事情將要罵我，態度將180度轉變，而且還會對我連珠炮發地口誅筆伐，就像毫無先兆，突如其來的暴風雨，殺個措手不及。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡfjQC1JMiaY
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLFTVpt7bPy
我：我平時同人相處好好嗰喎。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtr8b9jNgvY
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唉，我都知來不及了。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5MNNDika54
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Annie：下？588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtm4iZqyifD
Annie：咁點解你會令我成日覺得嬲同無奈？588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡgMspCAPA3q
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡaPiCelLKBN
然後如我所料，她打了長篇大論罵我。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡOAWWhqj2ri
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡy7hnVZPUtD
「我當初專登有幾次唔提『豬扒』就係想test你識唔識做，原來你係咁唔識做人」588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡEKwU6BBegf
「你上過討論區明知『豬扒』呢個字點解，但你三番四次係咁對我講，我覺得好冒犯」588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvdp4zWsIWk
「你有冇諗過人哋聽到之後感受會點㗎？」588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡpe1Yngobg1
「你仲細，咁嘅做人態度將來出到嚟一定死梗」588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡwUE7pINhDQ
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡuJPlCf44FM
突然我的心情晴天霹靂，啊，原來聊了超過一個月換來的結果就是這樣被罵一頓。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4Tq5JX8vNu
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡl3nawBulGP
啊，原來她一直以來不願跟我外出是浪費我時間嗎？588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡG2ubrmTMP7
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡz7YkKmV5iv
啊，因為我年紀比你少1.5年，所以你就把我看得那麼低賤嗎？588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1FILOhlSSv
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡIcQaD4fZ8F
啊，我做人不用你教！！！！588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvzSktGR1T3
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡz3I1A93jNn
我無言，最後她傳了一句：你真係覺得自己冇問題？588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2FEoj96BMX
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ2ikfgUCJbz
既憤怒又失望的我馬上封鎖了她的TG，以及一切能聯絡她的方法。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0S0Yx7KkBb
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封鎖她的原因並非憤怒蒙蔽自己的理智，而是：一來我神經很敏感，不想再讓她繼續罵我，我會受不住；二來我對這段關係已經絕望，我覺得連朋友都未開始便這樣吵架，開局都這樣，哪有好下場呢？我完全沒有修復的意欲。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjghu3XOCXl
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQSNmJ7ejJh
憤怒和失望的心情交織在一起，記得那一晚，我找好友Jason傾訴。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyU7Fp2Tti2
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Jason：有咩心事呀？慢慢講啦。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡuxlv6PHT5u
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ09CvsmcZh4
我：我話佢「豬扒」，本身係冇惡意嘅，但⋯⋯唉！我真係唔識兜返轉頭，都唔知點算好。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXvlORUIfUA
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡYyQeMwaiQ9
心情未平伏的我有點語無倫次地說著。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡpLQ1r4vSh3
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Jason：定定嚟，慢慢講啦。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡx9pzj9CJVi
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡinkV7m3hnI
我稍為平伏後，說著這過半個月來跟她相處的經歷。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVV1taUGv0C
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡKd96ODAyFW
我：佢根撚本就喺度玩嘢，咁樣test鳩我都有嘅！！！588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPueX1cTr13
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡy4njgVE30Q
Jason：話說你有冇試過唔理咁多約佢出嚟見咗先？588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5N5bUWq4mm
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3ZLG2EPJfv
我：試咗幾次喇，一約親佢佢就會嘗試轉移話題，好似想避咁。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡDkxngIccB9
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Jason：我當初都話㗎啦，嗰個肥妹仔，我之前一睇就覺得唔對路，邊可能同你啱傾呢？588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡj6Nuwa5QfU
Jason：屌，呢啲嫁唔出嘅肥妹仔，擺明係bitch嚟㗎啦！588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ23cauuVt17
Jason：平時中意發夢搵一個高大靚仔嘅歐美男子，但現實就冇人吼佢，眼高手低。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4ccpoo50Mi
Jason：我係咪又講中佢呢？588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3k9IKywuKw
（陰陰嘴笑）588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡHjJvmZpDR4
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我：佢的確係講過想溝歐美男仔。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5Ey6OktuTk
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ4AFeiXNZWH
又被Jason說中，事實上我認識了Jason多麼久，Jason本來就到過世界各地遊玩，諗過國際學校，做過花花公子交不同的女生，也見過大場面，什至跟人惹過是非，對人心的了解近乎街邊擺檔的風水師；Jason什至能「以貌取人」，單從一個人的面相大概猜度一個人的性格。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡvetyaDFUya
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我：屌佢老味！588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡbz1yK1naHy
我：佢而家咁即係點撚樣啫？係咪因我year 1 而佢U-grad所以我好串啲？係咪因為我年紀細所以好玩啲啫？佢仲要擺個家姐款出嚟教細路呀！！588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡTJgh6DgUt5
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Jason：車！佢都大得係幾年啫？588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡp0xdmi47Sy
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我：2年都冇啦，年半咋嘛。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmwLeb6rLpL
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡVO1YDelyy2
Jason：咁咪係囉，都唔係好多啫，我三十幾歲人喇，我大佢幾年添啦！叫佢試吓係我面前扮姐姐呀？我教返佢做嘢就真嘢。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ268HmFwRsV
（微笑地說）588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡAYLt8QjmaJ
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡdZNqKSQ6OA
我：唉，估唔到佢今日露出真面目，原來佢係咁對我。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡxhoSBE0FFS
我：我而家最嬲係佢嘥鳩時間，傾咗成過半月都唔肯出嚟見囉。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡCBfLFAeCnh
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡyRqiP3xeTf
Jason：一隻野豬仔咋嘛。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡz10NTRzxZd
Jason：佢擺到明就係平時冇人溝，嫁唔出嘅人，然後上交友app搵食啫。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ1kT8mWK9iy
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ7fja4nrhtJ
我：我估唔撚到隻野豬咁撚樣撞鳩我囉。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqC49wsrTtP
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXg2pkP2NEv
Jason：咁叫佢試下撞我囉，哼！588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ3HDRG9AAYS
（暗笑一聲）588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡscXVkwfrHH
Jason：所以我都唔知你嬲乜，講嚟講去，你都希望搵到個高汁又啱自己傾嘅女仔啫，係咪？588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWgemmMC5cm
Jason：淡定啲啦，而家拖都未拍就收皮，又唔係拍拖俾人分手咁傷，我諗過多排，呢件事對你就變成過眼煙雲㗎喇。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡeMF4il8Txb
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡjGKtE1sJeM
經過Jason在電話上的安慰，我徹底冷靜下來。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡq7a1wK7iPd
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡEI95pa2GbH
事隔幾日，如Jason所言我已經能繼續往前走，過回正常的日子。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡfigNb3FSxR
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXCgYjsdPxs
事後我又反思Jason那晚講過的話，還真的有道理。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡzXmBVuryEM
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9JTg9sc4mm
先檢討這次的經歷，我仍然需要提升自己的女人心的觀察力，避免再次出現像這次惹怒Annie的情況。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡoWMKBK2b10
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡd7cnAP9iaN
其次，又是在跟Susan聊天時遇上的同類問題：聊兩星期才約會是否太慢了？我真的要調整節奏才行；還有的是，如果她在app上跟人聊很久，但是屢次不肯出來與人見面的話，那麼能發展的機會基本上已經渺茫。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9U1dmPgcah
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡXXrGXiXMCO
現在又想想Jason那晚的說話，還真的有不少道理。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWftzxMJtlj
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡqkdcHbpIn8
Annie是大學畢業生，而且還進昇讀碩士，很重視事業。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡGEAWDyzO9Z
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUFHxW1awOR
人際關係方面，她說過她的公司全都是女生，基本上除了幾個中學同學外，平日都沒有接觸男生的機會；而她平日都愛跟公司的女同事談閑事，什至放假時都會聯絡一群同事到像Starbuck、Crosstini這些地方消遣。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLSWuFkDLNE
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9vfjuVwXMZ
我已經大概掌握到她是個怎樣的人。我不像Jason，我不在此評論她的好與壞，經過過過半月，Annie這類女生適不適合我，已經心裡有數。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡZSLS4iyQoL
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmJjrUKDMPq
再想想當初match她時，本來我只想借此機會來練習跟女生溝通，而非真的為真愛而match；但是沒想到，我最後竟然認真起來，真諷刺。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡE3o0sa7bB0
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡoInsJHcMva
在Tinder上，有很多大陸和外國人，Annie是我在這個app上繼Susan之後，遇上的第二個香港女生，但我這次竟然被「港女」反弄一道，不禁苦笑。588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡUZ98SFh7YM
588Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡtaYkodmal0
好了，繼續找下個吧。
Penana
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