💔What Is Love, Really?

Have you ever been in love?

Maybe.

Maybe if someone exists in your life right now, in your thoughts, then yes — you call that love.

But why?

Is their presence even necessary to love them? Or… not really?

Okay fine, forget that — just tell me one thing:

Have you ever truly fallen in love?

And then what happened?

Did they betray you?

Did your heart break?

Were you able to pick up the shattered pieces of yourself afterward?

Does love always end in pain when it’s unreturned?

No — that only happens when you start expecting…

When you trust someone too much.

But who said trust means love?

Let me tell you a secret.

Love is mostly one-sided.

Almost always.

It either lives in the heart of a woman or in the madness of a man.

But very, very rarely… in both.

Do you even know the real meaning of “love”?

It means to long for someone.

But to get them? That’s a whole different level of madness — your own obsession.

And this obsession?

Men have it more.

In obsession, a man can cross all limits —

He’ll hurt himself, go insane,

Cut his own tongue at your word,

End his own life if need be.

Women have often been the targets of this madness,

And those who escaped?

They’re called "unfaithful."

Because in his obsession, a man only wants to own her.

That’s all.

Have you ever cried your heart out for something you couldn’t have…

And when, by some miracle, you finally got it,

You started treating it like it was never that important?

That’s what men do too.

If they don’t get the woman — they mourn her all their life.

If they do — she suddenly becomes just “okay.”

See, obsession and love are different.

But obsession and liking —

They walk the same path.

Both men and women do it equally.

When you want something…

You’ll do anything to get it.

Even pay more than it’s worth.

But once you get it?

You start ignoring it.

And a little while later,

You might even sell it off —

Because the desire… it fades.

It’s all a game of damage.

You make someone special in your life, by choice.

But the ones who become special on their own —

That only happens in true love.

And that love?

That’s not for everyone.

Only a rare few experience it.

And trust me — they’re not happy.

Because love is destruction.

It ruins you.

And this disease, when seen in those rare chosen few —

It’s usually men.

Anyway — here’s the real truth:

Save yourself.

Don’t fall into this trap.

And especially, you men —

Please, figure out what your problem is

before you go ruining your life…

and someone else’s.

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