書籍:《教出殺人犯》岡本茂樹686Please respect copyright.PENANAcSQlax9f6G
一本很體現到日本文化對日本人有多束縛的書。686Please respect copyright.PENANA79EcqoUmxH
犯人一直強調(無論是交給作者課業,又或是教代機構強迫寫的悔過書)「給某某添麻煩真我很抱歉。」686Please respect copyright.PENANAg2GOnEJkSb
「添麻煩」、「抱歉」等字眼不斷又不斷在不同人的口中出現,彷佛在說: 所有問題都只是我一個人的問題。686Please respect copyright.PENANArRsxLe4JbA
這要有多壓抑?686Please respect copyright.PENANAvlc7OV5INy
當然,人犯罪了,必須要負上法律責任,問題肯定有!但並不應該只由他一個人去承擔。686Please respect copyright.PENANAqHUMXBmMhV
解決犯罪問題要從何入手?686Please respect copyright.PENANAhaQEoRHiTg
刑罰?法律?更新處理?教育? 686Please respect copyright.PENANAGVAWJypfKC
解決犯罪問題只可以針對犯人?686Please respect copyright.PENANAo6dptW7uP1
還是作為家長、教育者、普通人都應該都要有自覺一言一行足以推一個孩子入深淵,也可以救一個孩子出地獄。686Please respect copyright.PENANAusdkISDTxN
責任不單單只在一環。686Please respect copyright.PENANASbp6PcoaJE
畢竟,當需求長年被忽視;686Please respect copyright.PENANAt3vALpiVKj
當一次又一次的要求只換來更強力的壓止;686Please respect copyright.PENANArQpYeFXv8Y
當解鈴人務求紮出個心儀的形態,瞎眼耳聾心又盲到快要勒死人也看不見⋯⋯ 686Please respect copyright.PENANAkWtoqiZVbO
反抗是必然的,求生求存是萬物本能,只是各人方法有差異。686Please respect copyright.PENANAw1b4u3btex
書裡強調「聆聽」,聆聽他人,最重要聆聽自己來釋放壓抑。686Please respect copyright.PENANAEHiB0RZC8m
但事實只有聆聽足夠嗎?686Please respect copyright.PENANANDEr05S3a9
本來沒人理會的我得到你聆聽真的很感激!感謝你撥冗為我心煩。 這樣的心態能保持多久? 686Please respect copyright.PENANAIFUApwgowa
一刻?一年?半輩子?686Please respect copyright.PENANAcqDrDgEvEl
當你發現聆聽止於聽,甚至有時人只是左耳聽過,語句完封不動交給右耳,這樣的聽能安慰得到痛苦嗎?686Please respect copyright.PENANAs3NmoNZ2XD
聆聽是一門學問,需要消化,需要分析。686Please respect copyright.PENANA0wXVnNio13
顯然它也是一種能力,不是人人具備的能力。686Please respect copyright.PENANAn7Kr9A9fU5
不過無論你有沒有這能力也好,聆聽只能幫你抓住了問題的癥結,而回應才是解決問題的關鍵。 686Please respect copyright.PENANABHjRjUye5R
P.S.日本人壓力真的很大,大得足以養成各式隱形變態。686Please respect copyright.PENANADo2fbxrgsI