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These are not real interviews. They are fictitious and made-up. Do not see these interviews as the truth or historical, although I do use the web and AI for research. So these interviews are just for fun, and who knows what the “real person” would answer?
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Christopher119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡk5KhcbEDIb
Welcome, Aaron. You are brave to be here.
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Aaron119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ8ztxSCuZSX
Thanks, Christopher, I'm a little nervous, but I want to share my story with others and maybe help other kids like me.
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Why is it important to share your story?
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well, I think it helps people understand what it's like to be trans. if other kids see that they're not alone, it might make things a little easier for them. and for people who don't know much about it, maybe they can learn something and be more understanding.
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What does being transgender mean to you?
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Being transgender means that the body I was born with doesn't match how I feel inside. I was born a boy, but I know that I'm really a girl. It's like my mind and my body got mixed up somehow, and I have to live in a body that doesn't feel right to me.
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Can you explain why you feel like a girl?
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It's hard to explain, you know? It's just how I feel. Ever since I can remember, I've always felt like a girl. I love playing with dolls and makeup; I prefer wearing dresses; and I like to help my mom in the kitchen. I feel most comfortable when I'm dressed and acting like a girl. It's like it fits me better than the boy's clothes.
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Can you share with me when you first realised you felt different from the way others saw you?
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I think it was when I was about 5 years old. I remember my dad buying me toy cars and action figures, but I'd always play with them for a bit and then go back to my dolls. I just felt happier and more at ease when I was playing with more girly things. It confused me at first; I didn't understand why I was different. It wasn't until I was a bit older that I found out what transgender meant and realised that's how I felt.
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How did you feel when you realised you were different from what people thought?"
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At first, I felt scared because I didn't know if it was okay to feel this way. I didn't want to be different, especially when I saw how people treated others who were different. I just wanted to fit in. But when I found out about being transgender, it was like a lightbulb went off. It made sense to me, and I felt relieved. It was comforting to know that there were other people out there like me.
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Christopher119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡgyGyDj0kYU
So how did you embrace being a girl and letting others know?
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It wasn't easy, but I started by talking to my mom. She was really supportive and helped me understand more about being trans. She let me start wearing girls' clothes and using female pronouns. It was scary to tell my friends and classmates, but once I did, I felt like a huge weight was lifted off my shoulders. I know not everyone is accepting, and I've faced bullying, but my mom, my therapist, and a few friends who understand have made it a little easier to handle. I'm still learning to embrace being a girl every day, but I'm proud of who I am now.
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Why do you think you are a girl when you were born a boy?
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Well, Christopher, I believe it's just how I was meant to be. I don't think there's a reason for it; it's just who I am. Just like some people are left-handed or have red hair, this is how I was born. My identity isn't about what's written on a birth certificate or what's between my legs; it's about how I feel inside. And I know in my heart that I'm a girl.
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Don't you think it's just a phase that you will grow out of?
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Aaron119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡS0rKTPKA2M
No, Christopher, being trans isn't a phase. It's not something you can just grow out of, like a hobby or a fashion trend. It's a part of who I am. I've felt this way for as long as I can remember, and even if it wasn't something I could put into words before, it's still always been there. It's not something I chose; I just am who I am, and I know that I'll always feel like a girl.
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Christopher119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡaf7thWpcr9
What are some things you do to feel more like yourself?
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There are a few things that help me feel more like myself. Dressing in girly clothes, putting on makeup, and growing my hair out are all things that make me feel more comfortable. I also try to surround myself with supportive people, like my mom, my friends who understand, and my therapist. They help me feel safe and accepted, which makes it easier to be myself. Doing things I enjoy, like drawing and dancing, also makes me feel more like the girl I know I am inside.
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Christopher119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡC9VJBW1t8c
What do you think about the idea that boys and girls have different roles and appearances?
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I think those are just societal norms, and not everyone fits into them. People should be able to be whoever they are without being judged or forced into a mould. For me, the roles and appearances associated with being a boy just don't feel right. I don't want to be a boy; I want to be a girl, and that should be okay. I believe everyone should be allowed to express themselves however they want, as long as they're not hurting anyone else.
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Christopher119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ99XbmGUUTP
So you are a girl now, you wear girl clothes, have a girl hairstyle, and do girly activities.
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Aaron119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ0Pz9A0Imr8
Yes, that's right. I'm living my life as a girl, and it feels right to me. I enjoy doing things that are considered "girl" activities, and I like wearing clothes that make me feel like myself. This is who I am, and I'm happy with it. I'm still the same person on the inside, but the way I present myself and the experiences I have now fit better with who I truly am.
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Christopher119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPM1K6MnI7N
Do you ever wear boy clothes or do boy activities?
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Sometimes, when I'm forced to do so by my father or if I need to wear something more practical for an activity, like playing sports, It's not my preference, but I don't let it bring me down. I know who I am, and I'll continue to live as a girl, even if I have to wear boy clothes for a little bit. It doesn't change the person inside.
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Do you have to dress differently at home and school?
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Yes, unfortunately. At home, I can be myself and wear the clothes I feel most comfortable in. But at school, because of the dress code, I have to wear what's considered boy clothes. It's hard and can make me feel self-conscious, but I try to focus on the positive and remember who I truly am.
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Christopher119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡFPPvkMeC1s
As a transgender child, are you not allowed to wear girl clothes at school?
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Aaron119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlO98QaCIaO
Not exactly. I'm allowed to express myself to a certain extent. Some schools have more understanding policies, but mine has a strict dress code that hasn't changed much to accommodate transgender students.
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Do you want to change to another school?
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Sometimes, I think about it. A school that is more understanding and accepting would make life a lot easier. But changing schools is a big deal, and I have some good friends here. I'm hoping that things will change for the better and that more schools will become more inclusive. In the meantime, I'll keep fighting for change and hoping for a school environment where I can truly be myself.
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Christopher119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhbTMIXClGu
What do your parents say about you not being allowed to wear girl clothes at school?
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Aaron119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡQNk9EC4XqU
My mom is incredibly supportive and stands up for me. She has spoken to the school to try and change their policies, but it's been difficult. My dad, on the other hand, is still struggling with my gender identity. He often makes me wear boy clothes, and while he's not outright mean, he doesn't understand or accept me as I am. I'm hoping that one day he'll see how much happier I am as a girl and accept who I truly am.
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Christopher119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡhU6Clwlq4H
What did the school say to your mom?
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Aaron119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡBP3IjyfSlX
The school has told my mom that they understand my situation, but they need to uphold their dress code. They've suggested some compromises, like wearing a skirt over the required pants. While it's not ideal, it's a start. My mom and I will keep pushing for change, but it's a long and slow process.
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Christopher119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡuGdLBISIeW
Is it hard to use the bathroom at school?
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Yes, it's a daily struggle. I'm not allowed to use the girls' bathroom, and the boys' bathroom can be scary because of the bullying. I try to use the staff bathroom when I can, but it's not always an option. It's just another challenge I face because I'm trans.
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Christopher119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ6QivTwPev1
Is there anything you can do to change the dress code?
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My mom and I have talked to the school board and the principal about changing the dress code. We're hoping that by sharing my story, they'll understand the importance of inclusivity and make changes. It's a slow process, but we're not giving up. I believe that one day, schools will be more accepting and accommodating of transgender students like me.
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Christopher119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡCFkilhwCl6
Who supports you the most in your life?
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Aaron119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ9oRFOk37Sq
My mom has been my rock through all of this. She's always there to listen, to give me advice, and to make sure that I'm okay. She's the one who's fought hardest for my rights and my happiness. My therapist is also incredibly supportive and helps me with the challenges that come with being trans. They both make me feel valued and loved for who I am, which has made all the difference in my journey.
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Do your friends understand you and support you?
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Fortunately, I have a few close friends who understand and support me. They use my correct pronouns, they include me in activities, and they stand up for me when others are being mean. They make me feel like I belong, and knowing that they accept me for who I am means the world to me. It's important to have those friendships, as they help me feel less alone.
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How are some mean to you at school?
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At school, some kids can be really mean. They make fun of me, call me names, and spread rumours. It's hard to ignore,119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡlN55upF2H9
and sometimes it can really get to me.
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What names do they call you?
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They call me names like "tranny," "he-she," and "it." It can be really hurtful, but I try not to let it get to me. I know it's not who I am, but more their ignorance and lack of understanding. I just try to stay strong and keep moving forward.
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Do they use physical violence?
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Thankfully, there hasn't been any physical violence, but I know that's a reality for some transgender kids. I feel lucky in that regard, but it doesn't make the verbal harassment any easier to deal with.
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In a way, verbal harassment is worse.
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In a way, verbal harassment can be even worse. It's constant, it gets into your head, and it can make you question your self-worth. But I have to remind myself that it's not my fault and that I am still a good person, no matter what they say.
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Christopher119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡPLSsCujO9Z
What do you do when someone is mean to you?
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Aaron119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡilsjEhrnWM
If someone is mean to me about it, I try to stay calm. Sometimes, I'll just walk away, knowing that engaging with them might only make it worse. If I feel confident enough, I need to show that I won't let them bring me down, but it's also okay to protect myself by removing myself from the situation.
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Christopher119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ00Vff1EYf3
But sometimes it hurts too much just to ignore it.
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Aaron119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡmsjbBEqlVC
Yes, it's not easy to ignore hurtful comments, especially when they're said in front of others. It can make me feel small and helpless. But I try to remind myself that it's not my fault, and I focus on the love and support from the people who matter. I know that one-day things will change, and the world will be a kinder, more understanding place. Until then, I'll keep being strong and true to myself.
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Christopher119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡJOwCvsGb3S
Aren't you worried about how other people will treat you?
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Aaron119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡLXYrUDaIhB
Of course, I have worries and fears about how others will treat me as I grow up. I'm concerned about facing discrimination, violence, and rejection. But I try not to let those fears control me. I focus on the love and support I have, and I remind myself that I deserve to be treated with respect and kindness. I know there are people out there who are fighting for trans rights, and I hope that as time goes on, the world will become a more accepting place.
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Christopher119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡcgL2plTvfB
Is it fair to expect others to call you by a girl's name and pronouns?
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Well, I think it's only fair for people to call me by the name and pronouns that make me feel good about myself. It's just like how you want to be called by your name, right? I'm still the same person on the inside, but using girl names and pronouns fits the person I want to be. It's not asking for too much; it's just being treated like everyone else.
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How did your mom and dad react when you told them?
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When I first told my mom, she was very supportive. She cried and hugged me, and she's been fighting for me ever since. She helps me understand more about being trans and tries to make things easier for me. On the other hand, my dad is struggling. He doesn't like to talk about it and makes me wear boy clothes. Sometimes, I feel like he's ashamed of me, but I'm hoping he'll come around and accept me for who I am.
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Do you understand the way your dad feels?
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I think my dad loves me, but he doesn't understand. I hope that one day he'll be able to accept me just as I am. I want him to see that being trans is just who I am, and it's not a choice. I'm still his son, no matter what. I hope he'll find it in his heart to love me as a girl too, just like my mom does.
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Does your mom and dad fight about you?
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Sometimes, my parents argue about it. My mom wants to support me, and my dad wants to 'correct' me. It's tough to see them fighting, and I wish they could just talk about it in a way that doesn't upset me. I love them both, and I want them to find a way to support me together.
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How does it make you feel that they fight?
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It makes me feel sad and confused. I don't want to be the reason for their arguments. I want them to understand and love me, even if they don't agree. I hope they can find a way to talk about it without fighting because it's hard to see my family struggling like this.
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Do you think your dad will ever accept you as a girl?
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I'm not sure, but I hope so. I know it's a big change, and it's not easy for him. I try to be patient and understanding, even though it hurts sometimes. I believe that if I keep being me and showing him who I truly am, he'll see that I'm still the same person, just in a different form. I know it will take time, but I'm hopeful that he'll eventually accept me for who I am.
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Does anyone else in your family know, and how do they feel about it?
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My grandparents and aunt know. My grandparents are supportive, and they call me by my girl's name and pronouns. They love me and want me to be happy. My aunt, however, still struggles with it. She's trying, but it's not easy for her yet. It's okay, though, because I know it's not something people understand right away. I'll keep working on helping her understand and accept me for who I am.
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You are Catholic?
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Yes, I am. My faith is very important to me, and it has been a source of comfort during this journey. It can be confusing at times, to wonder if God still loves me for who I am, but I'm trying to reconcile my trans identity with my faith. I believe God doesn't make mistakes, and I want to find a way to stay true to both parts of myself.
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How do you justify being transgender with your belief that God gave you a boy's body?
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I think that even though God made my body, maybe He knew I wouldn't be happy in this body. Maybe He wants me to find my true self, even if it's not the body He gave me at first. It's hard to figure out, but I believe God loves me no matter what, and that's what's most important. I want to listen to my heart and be true to who I am while still being close to God.
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Does your faith community accept you as you are?
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I haven't really talked to my faith community about it, so I'm not sure how they'll react. I'm a little scared to share, but I know that some people might not understand. 119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡWcqBed2ftd
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How do they react when you go to church?
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When I go to church, they treat me like any other boy. I wear the clothes they expect, and nobody knows about my true self. Sometimes, I feel like I have to hide who I am, but I still find comfort in the prayers, the songs, and the teachings.
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So it's a double life you live... sometimes you are a boy and sometimes a girl.
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Yes, it feels like I'm living two different lives. It can be exhausting, but I do it because I want to be happy and be true to who I am. When I'm at church, I'm a boy, and when I'm with my mom, my friends, and my therapist, I'm a girl. I wish it could be just one life, but for now, this is how it is.
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When you are dressed as a boy, you are still a girl.
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Yes, even when I'm dressed as a boy, I'm still a girl on the inside. My appearance might not match how I feel on the inside, but who I am at my core doesn't change. I'm working towards a time when I can fully express that, but for now, I'm doing what I need to do to keep myself safe and happy. The important thing is that, no matter what I wear, I'm still the same person.119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ65QidcjEzS
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Do you ever get sad or worried about being different?
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Sometimes, I do get sad or worried about being different. I wish the world was a place where being trans was as normal as being left-handed. But I also know that I'm not alone, and there are people out there fighting for change. I try to focus on the love and support I have, and I remind myself that I'm brave for being true to myself. It's tough, but I'm working on finding strength and embracing who I am, different as it may be.
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What makes you feel happy and safe?
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The things that make me feel happy and safe are time with my mom, my friends who support me, my therapist, and just being able to be myself with people who care about me. Knowing that there's love out there, even if the world can be hard, helps me keep going. I find joy in creating art, listening to music, and playing games. Those are the things that bring light into my world, and they give me hope for a better tomorrow.
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What makes you happy about being a girl?
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Being a girl feels natural to me like it's how I was meant to be. I love being able to wear dresses and skirts, play with dolls, and just feel like I'm expressing who I truly am. I feel free when I'm able to live as my true self, and that happiness is worth fighting for. It might not be easy, but being a girl is where I find true joy.
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How do you know these feelings are real and not just something you’re imagining?
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I know these feelings are real because they're always with me. They're not something I can turn off or ignore. I've thought about it a lot, and I've talked to my therapist. The more I learn about being trans, the more it all makes sense. It feels right when I'm living as a girl, and it's uncomfortable when I'm forced to be a boy. It's a part of who I am, not something I just imagine. I'm confident in knowing myself and the truth about who I am.
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What’s the hardest part about being transgender?
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The hardest part about being transgender is dealing with all the doubt, fear, and judgement from others. It can be exhausting to constantly have to explain myself to people. There are times when I feel alone like no one understands. I also worry about the future, especially puberty and how it will affect my body. It's a lot to handle, but I take it one day at a time and focus on the love and support that I have.
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with people who don’t understand you?
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When people don't understand me, I try to be kind and patient. I explain things in a way that I think they can understand. Sometimes, they get it, and other times, they don't. I've learned that some people just need more time.
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Do your teachers know you're a girl? How do they treat you?
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My teachers know about me, but they haven't all been completely understanding. Some are supportive, using my girl's name and pronouns, and they've made an effort to learn about trans issues. They make me feel safe and welcome in their class. However, some teachers still struggle, and it can make school a difficult place for me. They call me by my boy's name and use boy pronouns, which makes me feel invisible and disrespected.
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Are there other kids at school like you?
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No, I'm the only trans kid I know of at my school. Being the only one can be isolating, but I've found support through online communities and reading about other trans kids' experiences. It's comforting to know that I'm not alone, even if I can't see other trans kids at my school.
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How does being transgender affect your day-to-day life?
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Being transgender affects almost every aspect of my day-to-day life, whether it's what clothes to wear to school, or how to handle situations with peers. There are good days when I feel accepted, and there are tough days when I face bullying or misunderstanding. I'm trying to be a normal kid, going to school, doing homework, and spending time with friends.
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What do you wish people knew about you and your experience?
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I wish people knew that being transgender is not a choice. It's who I am, and it's as natural to me as breathing. I hope they can understand that it's not a phase I'll grow out of or an act I'm putting on. I wish they knew how much it means to be respected, to have people use my girl's name and pronouns. It makes all the difference in the world, and it shows that they're trying to understand and accept me. Most of all, I wish people could see me as a girl, just like any other girl. I want to be treated with kindness and empathy and given the same opportunities and chances as my peers. I'm just trying to be myself, and that's all any kid wants. Understanding and acceptance can be life-changing for trans kids like me. I know that change takes time, but I hope that one day, the world will be a place where being trans is just as accepted as any other part of someone's identity.
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Do you have any friends or adults outside your family who have been especially supportive? How have they helped you?
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Yes, I have a few friends at school who have shown great support. They're the ones who call me by my girl name, defend me when others make fun of me, and just treat me like any other girl. Having them in my life makes a huge difference. They provide a safe space where I can be myself without fear of judgment. Outside of school, my therapist and a local support group for trans kids and their families have been incredibly helpful. They provide a place where I can talk about my experiences, share my feelings, and learn from others who are going through similar things. Having these people in my life gives me the strength to keep going. They remind me that I'm loved and valued, even when the world around me can be tough. Their support, kindness, and understanding are what help me believe that I can make it through this difficult time and create a happy life for myself.
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Do you have any role models or people you look up to who have inspired you? How have they influenced you?
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Yes, I've found some transgender role models who have been incredibly inspiring to me. They've shared their stories, shown courage, and advocated for trans rights. Watching them stand strong and proud has given me hope and the courage to be true to myself. One of the people I admire is Jazz Jennings, a transgender activist and reality TV star. She's been an advocate for transgender rights since she was young, and her determination and resilience have been an inspiration. She's shown me that it's possible to live life and make a difference. Another role model for me is Chelsea Manning, a transgender woman and whistleblower. Her story has taught me the importance of standing up for what's right, even when it's difficult. She's faced incredible hardships, but her bravery and strength continue to inspire me. These role models have shown me that it's possible to be a transgender person and create a meaningful life. I now know I don’t have to say I am sorry for being who I am.
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On the last show, we had Madonna. I'm not sure you know who she is. She is a pop star who has stood up for LGBT rights. She had this question for you: "As a transgender child, what has your journey been like so far, and how have your family, friends, and community supported or challenged you along the way? What advice would you give to others in similar situations, and how do you hope to use your experiences to make a positive impact on the world?"
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My journey has been a mix of ups and downs. There have been times when I felt really good about who I am, and I was accepted by some people. Those moments make me feel like I can do this and that it's going to be okay. But then, there are times when I face bullying or misunderstanding from others, which can hurt and make me feel alone. My mom has been my rock through all of this. She's been there for me, supporting me, and loving me for who I am. She's always trying to make things better for me, and she's my biggest cheerleader. She helps me understand that I'm not alone and that there are people out there fighting for change. At school, I have a few friends who have been kind and accepting. They make me feel like just another girl, and that's really important to me. But some others still struggle to see me as the girl I am. My therapist has been a great listener, helping me understand my feelings and giving me tools to cope. They've created a safe space for me to be myself and celebrate the small victories. I would tell others in similar situations to be brave and true to who they are. It's not easy, but it's worth it. Surround yourself with people who love and accept you. Remember that you're not alone, and others are going through the same thing. In the future, I hope to use my experiences to help make the world a more accepting place for trans kids.
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Do you think it's fair for you to compete in sports with girls?
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Yes, I think it's fair for me to compete in sports with girls. I'm a girl, and playing sports is something I enjoy and want to do with my friends. It's not about being stronger or faster than others; it's about having fun, being part of a team, and learning new skills. I'm not doing it to win or to get an unfair advantage. I just want to be treated like any other girl and have the same opportunities to participate in sports and activities.
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Are you afraid of what will happen to your body during puberty?
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Yes, I'm afraid of what will happen to my body during puberty. The thought of developing male features scares me and makes me feel like I'm betraying who I truly am. It's like my body is conspiring against me, making it harder for me to be the girl I know I am. I worry about how it will impact the way people see and treat me, especially since I'm already facing bullying. But I also know that there are things I can do to help manage these changes. I'm learning about options like puberty blockers, which can pause the physical changes during puberty. It gives me some comfort to know that there are steps I can take to align my body with who I am inside. Still, the fear is real, and I wish I didn't have to face it, but I'll do what I can to cope and adapt.
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What do you plan to do if you change your mind in the future?
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If I change my mind in the future, I will tell people around me. I'd let them know my thoughts and feelings, and I'd hope they'd respect my decision and support me through whatever changes I choose to make. My identity is my own, and I should have the right to explore and express it in a way that feels true to me. If that means changing something about how I present myself, I'd trust that the people who care about me would understand and support me on that journey. I believe in self-discovery and growth, and I want to be allowed the same freedom and acceptance as anyone else.
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"Are you sure you’re not too young to make such a big decision about your life?
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I know some people might think I'm too young to make such a big decision, but I believe that I know myself better than anyone else. I've been struggling with these feelings for a long time, and my therapist and I have talked about them a lot. They've helped me understand that this isn't something I can change or outgrow. My mom and I have also discussed this, and we both feel that it's important to start the process at the right time. I don't want to wait until I'm older and have to deal with the physical changes that will make it harder to feel like the girl I am inside. I know it's a big decision, but I'm not making it alone. I have the support of my mom, my therapist, and others in my life who have my best interests at heart.
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"What do you want to be when you grow up?
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When I grow up, I want to be an artist. I love drawing and creating stories. It makes me happy, and I dream of having a job where I can do it every day. I also really like writing, so maybe I could write and illustrate my own books. It would be amazing to share the worlds I imagine with others, and maybe inspire them like my favourite artists have done for me. But I'm still young, so my dreams might change.
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do you hope people will understand about you?
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I hope people understand that I'm just a regular kid. I like to play, laugh, and have fun. I love art, animals, and storytelling. The fact that I'm trans is part of me, but it doesn't define all of who I am. I'm more than just my gender identity. I hope people can see past the labels and just see me as Aaron. I want to be treated with kindness and respect, just the way I would treat others. I may be different, but that's okay. I believe that differences should be celebrated and accepted. I want people to know that trans kids like me are brave for being true to themselves. It takes courage to face challenges and stand up for our rights. I hope my story can help others. I hope that one day, everyone can live in a world where being trans, or anything else for that matter, is just another part of someone's identity and not a reason for discrimination or fear.
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In the next hot seat, we will be interviewing a Catholic priest. Do you have a question you wish to ask?
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Can you explain how you reconcile your faith with the existence of transgender people and the journey we go through? How does your religion guide you in understanding and supporting trans kids like me?
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Is there anything I didn't ask for that you would like to share?
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Well, there's one thing I'd really like to share. Even though being trans can be really hard sometimes, there are also wonderful moments. When I'm able to express myself as who I truly am, it feels freeing and amazing. I've met other trans kids and adults who are kind, supportive, and understanding. They've become my chosen family. I've learned about other trans people who have achieved great things, and they inspire me to dream big. It's a source of hope for me to know that, despite the challenges, there's a brighter future ahead. Even though the journey can be tough, I'm grateful to have support from my mom, my therapist, and the trans community. I want other trans kids out there to know they're not alone. Some people care about them, and they, too, can turn their struggles into strength. It takes courage to be true to yourself, and I believe that with support, understanding, and love, we can all grow into the people we're meant to be.119Please respect copyright.ＰＥＮＡＮＡ5ynsNyWYk0
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Thank you, Aaron, for being so brave and honest.
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Thank you, Christopher, for having me on the Hot Seat and giving me a chance to share my story. It means a lot to me to have a platform where I can talk about my experiences as a transgender girl. I hope that by sharing my journey, I can help others understand and support trans kids like me.
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Stay tuned for our next interview with a Catholic priest.
