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小幸子以前在報紙和網上專欄上刊登過的作品,261Please respect copyright.PENANApI88jNIahS
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因此內容可能不合時宜261Please respect copyright.PENANAQ6bkN4qoD3
但想發表在這裡做個紀念~261Please respect copyright.PENANArGNNdMcvy0
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「潮語」是指潮流用語,261Please respect copyright.PENANAqIMB9q7mjg
每個年代都會有不同特色的潮語。261Please respect copyright.PENANAcXdOmLfti3
而這年代具代表性的潮語莫過於「屈機」﹑「十卜」等,261Please respect copyright.PENANAumqJvPMSxY
由網絡衍生出來,夾雜一點「火星文」味道的潮語。261Please respect copyright.PENANAofBeM63z0a
這些帶點玩樂性質的潮語卻在近年開始變質,261Please respect copyright.PENANAheizTDes6J
漸漸出現一堆帶有諷刺性及侮辱性的潮語,261Please respect copyright.PENANA8TfTg1nFTv
例如「港女」﹑「剩女」﹑「宅男」﹑「90後」等等。261Please respect copyright.PENANAJSZrrwClNW
這些原本語調中性的名詞,261Please respect copyright.PENANAPyfNdAwsaX
為什麼後來會變成一種負面的標籤呢?
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「港女」換言之是香港女性,261Please respect copyright.PENANAfZBeBA48Zr
而「90後」即是1990年後出生的人,261Please respect copyright.PENANAV9oHyS3MsH
明明只是一個中立的簡稱。261Please respect copyright.PENANAc5kNpTlFxi
但現今世代的「港女」卻泛指有公主病﹑拜金的女生,261Please respect copyright.PENANAuD6eZ4mj7m
而「90後」就毫無理由地等同於261Please respect copyright.PENANAgFRKuyBaw5
工作不認真﹑沒責任心的一群,261Please respect copyright.PENANA6GvnTYCUg6
其實我每次聽到都覺得匪夷所思,261Please respect copyright.PENANA6QZM1YNrWC
即若果我是出生於1990年之後的香港女性居民,261Please respect copyright.PENANAvvIXyNhb2K
所以我一出世,261Please respect copyright.PENANAjMHHEbkrfT
不,未出世就已注定261Please respect copyright.PENANAphwC82HvBr
是有公主病﹑拜金﹑工作不認真﹑沒責任心的人?261Please respect copyright.PENANAQJ2gjXl6LT
那麼世上人人都是風水師,261Please respect copyright.PENANAmv2s1uAmrF
人人都懂得用生辰八字來睇相了。
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聽說是這些族群的大多數有這些特徵,261Please respect copyright.PENANAxMeA16UZ7u
所以就用以統稱。261Please respect copyright.PENANAunVMdWoH6r
我很好奇,發起這些統稱的人,261Please respect copyright.PENANAgwsMGENPcM
是否已經見過所有香港女子,261Please respect copyright.PENANAyPZdQWrNLI
或者所有出生於90年代後的人?261Please respect copyright.PENANAOoZXFo2a36
所謂大多數,即最少是多於一半。261Please respect copyright.PENANAu7lzrvOWGN
而性格特質這種東西,261Please respect copyright.PENANABMeycEZYYa
是要相處過才會見識到。261Please respect copyright.PENANALq8njeaKcr
所謂見識,不只是見過,261Please respect copyright.PENANAPXUy4ZMwKj
還要認識和體會。261Please respect copyright.PENANAHNiPfhmlAJ
我總不相信有人一生認識過100萬個香港女生。
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然而就因為其輕率的一聲「港女」,261Please respect copyright.PENANAeypesUhSO4
及後所有香港女性都像被世人用「家嫂」的眼光去審視:261Please respect copyright.PENANAOzksyh25sw
夏天穿背心短褲?港女。261Please respect copyright.PENANAD8PW2eUNWa
要男朋友買了超過一千蚊的禮物?港女。261Please respect copyright.PENANABzQiXRU738
約會遲到?港女。261Please respect copyright.PENANAAqJVu7jRhQ
同樣地,呻一呻辛苦,工作不認真,任性叛逆,261Please respect copyright.PENANAVJGyUbpHJx
你就是沒責任心,自私易放棄的90後。
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試問一下,261Please respect copyright.PENANAttfZwi3mHm
社會上除了老闆,誰上班是不辛苦?261Please respect copyright.PENANAa6uIwKNlFC
不幸遇上魔頭上司,簡直是痛苦。261Please respect copyright.PENANA4aHvyUG5Fr
呻一呻有何稀奇?261Please respect copyright.PENANA7AcQjCAID0
上世代的人從來沒呻過?我聽過創自1976年的「半斤八兩」,261Please respect copyright.PENANApaZ3kV1Dzc
可憐一班「90後」尚未出世呢。261Please respect copyright.PENANAIPsVQU03Ft
工作不認真?261Please respect copyright.PENANAiCqW2Ivgla
我相信不少在職人士一定見識過261Please respect copyright.PENANAFSldFumdxT
只說不做﹑恃老賣老的「老屎忽」。261Please respect copyright.PENANA8YacBGfZNf
世上當真只有90年後出生的人先會呻?261Please respect copyright.PENANAjbdpl4yKMW
先會推卸責任?261Please respect copyright.PENANAEIxHRwGsJx
叛逆任性,亦真的只出現在「90後」身上嗎?261Please respect copyright.PENANAG1ZvioXvdn
撫心自問,261Please respect copyright.PENANA2QdRRWJn4O
世界上又是不是只有香港女性才會約會遲到,261Please respect copyright.PENANA4rxSgkyp1V
收超過一千蚊的禮物?
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既是如此,為什麼獨獨只有這些族群才會被惡意標籤?261Please respect copyright.PENANAs9Y9d86TWi
所有所謂特徵,明明會出現在不同族群和年代的人身上,261Please respect copyright.PENANAS7x1SjYMG9
但現在獨獨只有這一群會被規範會被矯枉過正,261Please respect copyright.PENANA5dcYQR5zeo
再也不敢隨便呻隨便收禮物,261Please respect copyright.PENANA7i6Hyg4n7k
只因他們已經被標籤。261Please respect copyright.PENANAq6RcMnMA2r
就像被一條充滿荊棘的橡皮圈緊緊绑著,261Please respect copyright.PENANALfCKgqWUqS
又像在走一條窄如獨木橋又難行的石春路,261Please respect copyright.PENANAYDtB4Py2RR
就怕稍稍走錯一步都會被世人指點﹑唾罵。 261Please respect copyright.PENANAf9PDFHX0so
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被標籤的族群261Please respect copyright.PENANAxA31GQRnlP
如今只能因大眾的誤解而生活在峡窄的規範中。261Please respect copyright.PENANAdCyLTaPVtl
然而,以我所知,261Please respect copyright.PENANA4oJJLMifsl
現今90後或香港出世的女性都不是複製人,261Please respect copyright.PENANAYDjCnLgX6y
所以每個人都還是獨立的個體,261Please respect copyright.PENANAipJmfcAmcY
行為﹑性格﹑特色都獨一無二,261Please respect copyright.PENANAxUsJadPS6Y
不至於所有/大多數這些族群的人261Please respect copyright.PENANAWKnVXWYTix
就一定/必然會出現這些特徵。261Please respect copyright.PENANA4EgnqiHJFR
事實上,261Please respect copyright.PENANA7tL5UXedRE
是否「90前」﹑「美女」(美國女性)﹑「中女」(中國女性)261Please respect copyright.PENANAj1IIKnSKP7
真的從來沒有出現過被標籤族群所做的行為呢?
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其實,峽窄的生活方式,是源於膚淺的眼光。261Please respect copyright.PENANAtRUoMnwWwg
我真心希望這些讓人心生壓力的標籤效應以後能夠慢慢淡化,261Please respect copyright.PENANAzviDWVaXqL
希望大家能客觀﹑獨立的看待每一個人。261Please respect copyright.PENANAOlsVeGR8xz
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文章發表在261Please respect copyright.PENANAS6AwaFW4or
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